Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Sister, Sister!

To my dear sister Christy,
I have known you for your entire life, 
born when I was just two and a half,
and from that November day, 33 years ago,
each day since you've been making me laugh.
We shared a bedroom, toys, and our dreams,
and though we didn't always want to be giving,
we went through so many things together,
without you, I just wouldn't call it living.
You know all there is to know about me,
having been there for each different phase,
and the memories I have that include you,
fill up every one of my calendar days.
Though we always knew we were different,
those unique traits set us apart,
and it's like we've always been connected,
you're an established piece of my heart.
You are the best sister anyone could ask for,
my best friend, a guardian, my idol,
and if I wrote down my life as a story,
your name would be right in the title.
My love for you goes without saying,
but it's more in my style to be heard,
so though I don't always get to tell you,
I hope you listen to my every word.

I shake my head because even though YOU are the one celebrating the birthday today, how come I'M the one who feels like the recipient of a gift? 

You may be the banker, but having you as my sister makes me filthy stinkin' rich in love, laughter, and has me living beyond my means in extreme happiness.  I don't know what I did to deserve a sister like you, but I thank God for it every. single. day. 

In my 35 years (and *ahem* that's a lot of years), no one has been able to reach me in quite the way you do.  You have known when to say nothing, and you've known when to speak up.  Your sweet and undying support helped build the foundation on which I stand every day that I'm alive. 

When you surprised me and flew out to see me just a few days after Jackie was born, you helped me get through those overwhelming, scary, first-time-mom moments, and you've come through for me every time I've needed you, always putting my comfort above your own.
 
Like two parallel lines, we stick together.  You are the exclamation point in my expression, the caramel on my Starbucks, my bridge over troubled water, and an ever present glowing reminder that I am so very blessed in life just to have you as my sister.  You make me smile and I thank you for your love and friendship.   

I love you beyond measure, Christabelle!  Happy happy birthday to you, sis!






8 comments:

  1. Such a beautiful tribute to sisterly love, it made me cry! A gift to each other, that's what you both are.

    Love you both!

    Aunt Donna

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    1. Aw, thank you Aunt Donna! She is the best! I know you know how special it feels to have great sisters!

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  2. Oh KAREN!! This made me cry--like totally sobbing boo hooing!! I love this so much. Your relationship with your sister sounds so beautiful. Your love for her just shines through!! Happy birthday to your beautiful sister Christy. I'm so glad you have each other! :)

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    1. I don't know what I would do without her. Sisters are like best friends that you've got for life! Thanks for being here!

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  3. Happy birthday to Christy!! You are so blessed to have each other. Your relationship makes me wish I had a sister.

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    1. I am your sister! And I love you so much! So blessed to have you, R! I can't even begin to think about it without tearing up...also, it's that time of the month. :)

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  4. So sweet! I love seeing siblings get along like this. Although, I'm sure you've had your fair share of fights : )

    You and your sister could pass as fraternal twins.

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  5. Oh my goodness, Karen! That's the sweetest thing ever written. I love you so much and am so thankful to call you MY sister. Thank you so much for that super touching and beautiful tribute to me. I'm so lucky and dont know what I would do without you! Love, Christy

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